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1631 Church Street
NORFOLK, VA 23504
Phone: 757-622-1085
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Lorraine Graves

Lorraine Elizabeth Graves (Graves)

Saturday, October 5th, 1957 - Thursday, March 21st, 2024
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BOOKOFMEMORIES.COM, including mobile applications and related services (collectively the “Site”) is fully owned and operated by FrontRunner Professional, (the “Company,” “we,” “us,” “our”). Company takes your privacy seriously. We feel it is important that you fully understand the terms and conditions under which we use the information we gather from you through the use of our Site. Please read this Privacy Policy ("Policy") carefully to understand how we will use and protect your Personal Information. We will not share your Personal Information with anyone except as described in this Policy. Changes to this Policy will be announced on our Site, so please check back periodically. This Policy forms part of the Company’s TERMS AND CONDITIONS and is incorporated by reference to those Terms and Conditions.

This Policy outlines Company’s general policies and practices for protecting your private information on this Site. It covers why Company collects information, the types of information it gathers, how it uses such information, and the notice and choice affected individuals have regarding Company’s use of and their ability to correct their information. This Policy applies to all personal information received by Company whether in electronic, written, or verbal format.

Company reserves the right to modify this Policy at any time and will do so from time to time. Each modification shall be effective upon its posting to the Site. Your continued use of the Site following any such modification constitutes your acceptance of any change(s) to this Policy. It is therefore important that you review this Policy regularly. If you have any questions concerning this Policy please contact Company at support@frontrunner360.com.

1. Scope

This Policy covers the Site in part and as a whole. However, it does not apply to entities that Company does not own or control, including without limitation, Campaign, advertisers or developers of content. Company may include third-party links on the Site. These third-party sites are governed by their own privacy policies and NOT this Policy. Company therefore has no responsibility or liability for the content and activities of these third-party sites. Please check the privacy policy of any third-party site you interact with on or off the Site.

2. General Policy Provisions

  1. Definitions

    “Personal Information” includes both “Personally Identifiable Information” and “Non-Personally Identifiable Information”.

    "Personally Identifiable Information" refers to information that lets us know the specifics of who you are and can be used to identify, contact or locate you. Personally Identifiable Information is requested when you register with us, make a Donation, correspond with us, or otherwise volunteer information, for instance, through the use of "Contact Us". Personally Identifiable Information may include, without limitation, your name, mailing address, telephone number, e-mail address, credit card number, and other identification and contact information.

    "Non-Personally Identifiable Information" refers to information that does not identify a specific individual by itself or in combination with other information. We gather certain information about you based upon what you view on our Site in several ways. This information is compiled and analyzed on both a personal and an aggregated basis. This information may include the Site’s Uniform Resource Locator ("URL") that you just came from, which URL you next go to, what browser you are using, and your Internet Protocol ("IP") address. A URL is the global address of documents and other resources on the World Wide Web (‘Web”). An IP address is an identifier for a computer or device on a Transmission Control Protocol/Internet Protocol ("TCP/IP") network, such as the World Wide Web. Networks use the TCP/IP protocol to route information based on the IP address of the destination. In other words, an IP address is a number that is automatically assigned to your computer whenever you are surfing the Web, allowing Web servers to locate and identify your computer. Computers require IP addresses in order for users to communicate on the Internet, browse and shop

    “Sensitive Personal Information” means Personal Information that reveals race, ethnic origin, sexual orientation, political opinions, religious or philosophical beliefs, trade union membership or that concerns an individual’s health.

  2. Notice

    Company shall inform you of the purposes for which it collects and uses Personal Information and the types of non-agent third parties to which Company discloses or may disclose that information. Company shall provide you with the choice and means for limiting the use and disclosure of your Personal Information. Notice will be provided in clear and conspicuous language when you are first asked to provide Personal Information to Company, or as soon as practicable thereafter. In any event, you will receive notice before Company uses or discloses the information for a purpose other than that for which it was originally collected.

  3. Choice

    Company will offer you the opportunity to choose (opt-out) whether Personal Information is to be disclosed to a third party or to be used for a purpose other than that for which it was originally collected or has subsequently been authorized. For Sensitive Personal Information (when applicable), Company will give you the opportunity to affirmatively or explicitly consent (opt-in) to the disclosure of the information for a purpose other than that for which it was originally collected or has subsequently been authorized. Company will treat Sensitive Personal Information it receives from anyone the same as it would treat its own Sensitive Personal Information.

  4. Security

    Company shall take reasonable steps to protect Personal Information from loss, misuse, unauthorized access, disclosure, alteration, or destruction. No company is immune from Internet attacks or data breaches. Company cannot guarantee the security of information on or transmitted via the Internet.

  5. Data Integrity

    Company shall only process Personal Information in a way that is compatible with and relevant to the purpose for which it was collected or has been authorized. To the extent necessary for those purposes, Company shall take reasonable steps to ensure that Personal Information is accurate, complete, current, and reliable for its intended use.

  6. How to Access Your Information

    Company offers you choices for the collection, use and sharing of Personal Information. You may notify Company of your preferences, or change any Personal Information, by emailing support@frontrunner360.com. Please be sure to provide complete account information so Company can identify you in its records.

    You may also stop the delivery of future promotional e-mail from Company by responding directly to any email you receive with a request to remove you from the mailing list.

3.Reasons the Company Collects Personal Information

Company collects your Personal Information because it helps deliver a superior online experience, gives you convenient access to the Site for browsing, and allows key features of the Site to function properly. In order to better provide you with this superior level of customer service, our Site collects two types of information (referred to in this policy as "Personal Information") about our visitors: Personally Identifiable Information and Non-Personally Identifiable Information. In addition, your Personal Information helps Company keep you informed about the latest announcements, special offers, and events that you might like to hear about.

4. Information Company Collects About You

Any time a guest or member (collectively “Users”) accesses the Site they receive a “cookie” from Company. Company uses cookies (small pieces of data stored for an extended period of time on a computer, mobile phone, or other device) to make the Site easier to use and to protect both you and Company. These cookies give Company certain Non-Personally Identifiable Information about your use of the Site. You may remove or block cookies using the settings in your browser, but in some cases that may impact your ability to use the Site. Company may also use pixels, widgets and other tools to gather such Non-Personally Identifiable Information to improve the experience of the website or mobile application.

Company may contract with third-party service providers to assist it in better understanding its Site Users. These service providers are not permitted to use the Non-Personally Identifiable Information collected on Company’s behalf except to help it conduct and improve its business.

When you access the Site from a computer, mobile phone, or other device, Company may collect Non-Personally Identifiable Information, which does not identify individual users, to analyze trends, to administer the site, to track users’ movements around the site and to gather demographic information about the user base as a whole. Company will not use the information collected to market directly to that person.

Company keeps track of some of the actions you take on the Site such as member profiles and pages you view. Even if you do not provide certain information, Company may obtain it from you profile or the pages of its Site that you visit. Company may retain the details of connections or transactions you make on the Site.

5. Information You Provide to Company

To become a User, Company shall collect certain Personally Identifiable Information, which you are required to provide. Information that is not required shall be deemed voluntary and you may provide such information, although not mandatory.

While using the Site, you may provide text, files, images, photos, videos, location data, or any other materials (collectively “Content”) to Company by uploading, posting, or publishing the Content on the Site. Frequently, Content you place on the Site will contain a picture of your face. Company may retain the details of connections or transactions you make on the Site.

Where applicable, when you interact with other Users on the Site, you may provide other information about yourself, such as political or topical views, religious affiliation, or marital status. Any information in a public forum is accessible by anyone, including people who are not members of the Site. Please be aware they may share information you give them with other Users you may not know. They may also share the information outside the Site without your prior approval. Company does not have control over the actions of its Users and accepts no responsibility or liability for their actions. Please keep this fact in mind when using the Site, and use care when disclosing Personal Information to other Users of the Site.

Company may also collect information from ads you click on when using the Site. Company may also keep track of links you click on in e-mails you receive from Company. This is done to increase the relevancy of the ads you see.

6. How Company Uses Your Personal Information

Company uses the information you are required to provide to become a User in order to insure you are over the age of thirteen (13). THE SITE IS NOT MEANT TO BE USED BY ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF THIRTEEN (13). If you are under thirteen, please do not attempt to register with the Site or send Company any Personal Information. Company may also use your age information to be sure you receive an age appropriate experience while using the Site.

Company will use the information it collects to provide, without limitation, services and features to you and facilitate payment for any Donations between Campaign Organizers and Donors and provide information to Campaign Organizers and Campaign beneficiaries. Company will also use the information to measure and improve the Site, and to provide you with customer support.

Company may contact you with new or updated products or services, designs, routes, surveys, or other related announcements from time to time. You may opt-out of all communications except essential updates. Company may include Content in the e-mails sent to you.

Certain software applications and applets transmit data to Company. Company may not make a formal disclosure if it believes its collection of and use of the information is the obvious purpose of the Site or its related application. If it is not obvious that Company is collecting or using such information, it will disclose its collection to you the first time you provide the information.

Company may use the information collected to prevent potential illegal activities. Company may also use a variety of methods to detect and address anomalous activity and screen content to prevent abuse.

Company may use your information to serve you personalized advertising. Company does not share your information with advertisers without your consent. Company allows advertisers to choose the characteristics of Users who will see their advertisements. Company may use any of the Non-Personally Identifiable Information it has collected in any fashion to select the appropriate audience. Company will not tell the advertiser who you are as part of this process. When you interact with an advertisement there is a possibility that you may receive a cookie from the advertiser.

7. How Company Shares Your Information

Company shares your Personal Information with third parties when it believes you have permitted such sharing, that it is reasonably necessary to offer services, or when legally required to do so. Company will not share your Personally Identifiable Information with third parties in a way that it thinks violates your privacy. The following non-exhaustive list contains examples of how Company shares or could share your information:

  1. If Site allows you to invite a friend to join the Site or become a User, and you choose to do so, the invitation will contain information that will allow your friend to identify you. The invitation may contain information about other Users your friend might know.

  2. Certain information you provide to Company may be shared by using the Site’s search function. This allows other Users to locate your profile and it allows new Users to find people they know on the Site.

  3. Company provides some public information to search engines. This information allows search engines to locate the Site. It also allows people to locate you on the Site using a major search engine. This does not mean all information you post on the Site may be accessed using a search engine.

  4. There are also times when Company may make certain Personal Information about you available to strategic partners or third parties. These companies may help Company process information, render services to you, manage and enhance customer data, provide customer service, assess your interest in products and services, or conduct research or satisfaction surveys. Without such information being made available, it would be difficult for you to use Company's Site and services.

  5. Company may also share Personal Information when it has a good faith belief it is necessary to prevent fraud or other illegal activity, to prevent imminent bodily harm, or to protect itself and you from people violating the Terms and Conditions of the Site. This may include sharing information with other companies, lawyers, and courts or other government entities.

  6. Company may disclose information pursuant to subpoenas, court orders, or other requests (including criminal and civil matters) if it has a good faith belief that the law requires such a response. This may include requests from jurisdictions outside of the United States if Company has a good faith belief that the response is required by law under the local laws in that jurisdiction, is applicable to users from that jurisdiction, and is consistent with generally accepted international standards.

  7. Company may disclose analyzed data in the form of purchasing trends or statistical data. No Personally Identifiable Information will be attached to this disclosure.

8. Business or Asset Transfer or Sale

Company may be sold, sell or buy businesses or assets of businesses, or merge with another business. In such transactions, Personal Information generally is one of the transferred business assets. Also, in the event that Company, a line of business of Company, or substantially all the assets of Company are transferred, Personal Information may well be one of the transferred assets. Company will make a reasonable effort to provide notice on the Site, and to notify you via e-mail to the most recent e-mail address that you have provided of any such change in ownership or control of your personal information.

9. Miscellaneous

  1. Privacy of Children

    YOU MUST BE EIGHTEEN (18) YEARS OR OLDER TO ACCESS THE SITE OR USE ITS SERVICES. IF YOU ARE UNDER EIGHTEEN YEARS OF AGE, YOU ARE NOT PERMITTED TO ACCESS ANY OF COMPANY’S SERVICES FOR ANY REASON. DUE TO THE AGE RESTRICTIONS FOR USE OF COMPANY’S SITE AND SERVICES, NO INFORMATION OBTAINED BY COMPANY FALLS WITHIN THE CHILDREN’S ONLINE PRIVACY PROTECTION ACT OF 1998 AND IS NOT MONITORED AS DOING SO.

    Protecting children’s privacy is especially important to Company. Company does not knowingly collect Personal Information from children under 13, but because some information is collected electronically, it can appear to be the Personal Information of someone over the age of 13, and will be treated as such by this Policy. If a child under 13 submits Personal Information and Company learns that Personal Information pertains to a child under 13, it will attempt to delete the information as soon as possible. It is Company’s policy to comply with the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 and all other applicable laws. Therefore, Company restricts the Site and all other provided services to persons 18 years or older.

  2. Agreement with Policy and Continued Use of Site

    Unless stated otherwise, Company’s current Policy applies to all information that Company has about you, your account, and access to the Site. By using the Site, you consent to this Policy and having your Personal Information and data transferred and processed as described.

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Lorraine Elizabeth Graves was born October 5, 1957 in Norfolk, Virginia. To the late Tom and Mildred Graves. She attended Norfolk Public Schools, graduating with honors from Lake Taylor High School in 1975. She began her classical ballet training at the age of 8 1/2 under the direction of the late Gene Hammett at the Academy of the Norfolk Ballet where she was the first African-American student to be accepted into that school. She was later awarded full scholarships to the School of American Ballet and the American Ballet Center.

Upon graduation from High School, Ms. Graves attended Indiana University at Bloomington, IN where she continued her dance training and completed a four year program in three years earning a Bachelor of Science Degree in Ballet with Distinction.

Ms. Graves began her professional career with the Dance Theatre of Harlem, co-founded by the late Mr. Arthur Mitchell and the late Mr. Karel Shook. There, she rose to the rank of Principal Dancer within one year. Three years later, she was given the additional duties as Ballet Mistress and later, Regisseuse. As Ballet Mistress/Regisseuse, Ms. Graves was responsible for the works of such renowned choreographers as the late Glen Tetley, Michael Smuin and Billy Wilson as well Arthur Mitchell, Alonzo King, the stagings of the classics by Frederic Franklin and the Balanchine Repetoire.

Ms. Graves' performance credits with the Dance Theatre of Harlem include: Creole
Giselle(Myrta); Firebird(The Princess of Unreal Beauty); Garth Fagan's, Footprints Dressed in
Red; Alvin Ailey's, The River; Domy Reiter-Soffer's, La Mer and Equus: the Ballet; John McFall 's, Toccata E Due Canzoni; Ron Cunningham's, Etosha; Arthur Mitchell's, Tones, Holberg Suite, Fete Noire and Rhymetron and George Balanchine's, Serenade(Russian Girl), The Four Temperaments(Choleric), Agon(Pas de Deux), Stars and Stripes and the role of The Siren in The Prodigal Son. As well, Ms. Graves danced leading roles in Geoffrey Holder's, Dougla and Dele; Agnes de Mille's , Fall RivepLegend; Billy Wilson's, Mirage and Concerto In F and Frederic Franklin's stagings of Pas De Dix, Prince Igor and Scheherazade.

Ms. Graves has been featured on television in the role of Myrta in NBC's airing of Dance Theatre of Harlem's Creole Giselle; 60 Minutes with Ed Bradley; at the closing ceremonies of the 1984 Summer Olympics in Los Angeles, California; Peter Jennings Reports (A Special on the Dance Theatre of Harlem); and the PBS airing of Agnes de Mille's, Fall River Legend and The Firebird. During her career with the Dance Theatre of Harlem, Ms. Graves was blessed to be able to perform for such luminaries including former President and Mrs. Bill Clinton; former Vice President and Mrs. Al Gore; former President and Mrs. Ronald Reagan; former President and Mrs. George Bush; the late Michael Jackson; the late Artist know as Prince; the late Princess Diana and Princess Margaret (who was the guest of honor at the London Premier of DTH's "Creole Giselle"); the King of Norway; former Soviet leader, Mikail and Mrs. Gorbechev; Opera Divas: Leontyne Price and Jessye Norman; the late President of South Africa, Nelson Mandela; Actors: Bill Cosby, Dianne Carroll, the late Cicely Tyson and many others.

Ms. Graves' guest appearances included performances with the Detroit Symphony Orchestra; New York Philharmonic's Young People's Concert Series; the Norfolk Civic Ballet, The Northwest Florida Ballet and at the 1996 International Azalea Festival with the Virginia Ballet Theatre where she became a featured guest artist and staged several Balanchine Ballets for VBT with the permission of the Balanchine Estate. Other guest appearances include the Dance for Life AIDS Benefit at the New York State Theatre and the Golden Plate Awards at the Mirage Hotel in Las Vegas, Nevada.

Ms. Graves has extensive teaching experience including, the North Carolina School of the Arts,
The Governor's School for the Arts in Richmond, Virginia where she was a guest instructor for 20 years, The Virginia School of the Arts in Lynchburg, Virginia, The Cornish Institute in Seattle, WA, The Oklahoma Summer Arts Institute, The South Carolina Governor's School of the Arts, The Virginia Ballet Theatre, The Flint Institute of Music, The Southeastern Regional Ballet Association (SERBA), The East Coast Cechetti Council of America Workshop; The Oglebay School of Dance in Wheeling, WV, The Dance Theatre of Harlem School, The Dance Theatre of Harlem/City Dance Intensive, The Tallahassee Ballet and has taught many Master Classes nationally and internally while with Dance Theatre of Harlem.

After a 17-year career with the Dance Theatre of Harlem, Ms. Graves returned to her hometown of Norfolk where she became a part of her family's business, Graves Funeral Home, Incorporated, now in its 70th year. She continued to teach and coach. She was a permanent Guest Teacher with the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theatre; was an original faculty member of the Dance Theatre of Harlem's/Kennedy Center's Educational Pre-Professional Training Program for 20 years; is on the faculty at the Todd Rosenlieb Dance Center, the Governor's School for the Arts and Ballet Virginia International and is Resident Guest faculty for the Alabama School of Fine Arts. She is also the Lead Adjudicator and Head Faculty for the West Virginia Dance Festival in Charleston, WV; The Immediate Past Chairman of the Norfolk Commission on the Arts and Humanities, where she served 3 terms as Chair and is teaching Master Classes throughout the country. As well, she was appointed as a Trustee of her church, Grace Episcopal in Norfolk. In 2012, Ms. Graves received the Performing Arts Award from the Historic Attucks Theatre for her contributions to the Arts in the community. In January of 2016, Ms. Graves became the 5th recipient of the Virginia Symphony's "I Have A Dreamer Award". In April of 2017, Ms. Graves was honored by the Norfolk Education Foundation-as an Alumni of the Norfolk Public Schools.

Ms. Graves returned from an Historic trip to Russia in April 2012, where she assisted Arthur
Mitchell teaching classes at the famed Bolshoi Academy, the Vaganova School, and the Boris
Eifmann Company. She also taught Master Classes for the Open Dance Festival in St. Petersburg. This trip marked Arthur Mitchell's 50 year anniversary of his first performances there with the New York City Ballet and the 24th year that his famous Dance Theatre of Harlem performed in both Moscow and St. Petersburg. The trip was made possible in part by the American Embassy and their "American Seasons Program.

In August 2014, Ms. Graves was certified by the Bolshoi Academy to teach grades 1-3. She was among only 28 candidates to receive this honor in the United States. Ms. Graves served as the Artistic Assistant to the late Arthur Mitchell for his "Informal Evening on the Art of the Dance" at Columbia University (October 2017) where his archives will debut. Prior to his death in September of 2018, Ms. Graves again served as Artistic Assistant to Mr. Mitchell in the staging of his ballet "TONES, Il" on the Dance Theatre of Harlem. Most recently, Ms. Graves taught Master Classes at Juilliard.

Ms. Graves is listed in Who 's Who in America, Who 's Who in Entertainment, Who 's Who Among Women and Marquis ' Who 's Who.

Ms. Graves is survived by her brother Tommy Graves III (Angelia); her nephews Thomas E. Graves, IV and Jason Graves; and great nephews, Thomas E. Graves, V and Aston; as well as a host of other relatives and special friends.
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  • Visitation

    Thursday, March 28th, 2024 | 2:00pm - 6:00pm
    When
    Thursday, March 28th, 2024 2:00pm - 6:00pm
    Location
    Graves Funeral Home
    Address
    1631 Church St.
    Norfolk, VA 23504
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  • Service

    Friday, March 29th, 2024 | 11:00am
    When
    Friday, March 29th, 2024 11:00am
    Location
    Mt. Lebanon "The Mount" (Cathedral)
    Address
    215 Las Gaviotas Blvd.
    Chesapeake, VA 23322
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    Roosevelt Memorial Park
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    1101 Campostella Road
    Chesapeake, VA 23320
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Agnes Turman

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During my first year of college at Indiana University my dorm room was next to Lorraine’s. I was always looking for people to practice drawing and she gave me a photo of herself to draw. Although it was a beginners effort I always kept it as a favorite. This week an impulse moved me to look Lorraine up on google. It was a sad surprise to find a funeral date.
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Christie Mendoza McCall

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I will always remember Lorraine’s kindness and love, first and foremost. She was such a loving, caring, and gentle soul which was shown through her performances and her teaching, but most of all, in how she loved and cared for others.
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